
That is not lazy
Here’s the thing: when you’re starting out on your own or taking on a new role, you can follow the books and blogs about how to set up and go about your business. You don’t have to, but you can.
You’ll try and fail and try and learn and try again. You’ll bump into things.
Boss The Eff Up
What to do when the signs were there, demanding a major change and I ignored them and explained them away.
Why Leaders Don’t Lead
In my change management work, I spend a lot of time talking to employees about what keeps them at their jobs and what motivates them to leave. Much like the Gallup quote above, their answer is almost unanimously leadership-related.
Phenomenon
Have you ever wondered how the phrase "imposter syndrome" began? Understand where your feelings of self-doubt come from a little bit more.
Saying Yes To Saying No
Why do you say yes when you really want to say no? What happens if you:
✨Set boundaries
✨Honor those boundaries
✨Choose yourself
One year later
With the privilege of hindsight I'm struck by those little things that hit me hardest over this last year; lessons I may not have otherwise experienced
The People Side
In my 13-plus years in this field, I can share key questions that boost the likelihood of success if they're addressed in planning for change (and how they apply to coaching). So here we
Choose You
Choose you. Those two simple words have stuck with me for seven months, at the front of my mind and on the tip of my tongue.
Out with the old
If you're feeling like making a tweak to your life, if you're looking to set some goals to help you dominate in this new year, here are four tips to help drive your success and make those goals stick
Tis the season
I'm curious: what are you doing to give back to yourself? How are you giving yourself the gift of transformation?
Measure Twice
If we don't know what we're measuring as your progress towards your success, then how will we know when to celebrate?
Fail harder
"Tell me about a time you've failed" is a trick question. Interviewers ask it to gain a sense of your ego, your ability to handle adversity, and how you rebound. But it is a trick question.
Sorry, not sorry
Here's the thing: you never, ever have to apologize to me for being your badass self. Ever. And I'm not sorry for that.
Playing dress-up
Where can we make little changes to how we dress (or behave, or feel) more like ourselves every day, all day? Because don't little changes become big changes when added together and given time?
What do you want to be when you grow up?
If you wanted to make that leap from what you do to what you want to do, what would it take? What would you like to be when you grow up?
Work-in-progress
Why rapidly point out perceived imperfections? Why downplay our accomplishments? Why is it so scary to be brave?